honestly the third trimester body changes have not honestly the third trimester body changes have not been easy to deal with. I’m feeling bigger than ever, tired, and uncomfortable. but getting this maternity photos back was SO SPECIAL and made me so glad that I took the time to get dressed up and capture this life stage with my husband. 

so if you need a sign to go take the maternity photos, this is it! even if it’s just an hour, even if you’re just having your partner snap photos in the backyard. capture this special time. you won’t regret it. 

#maternityphotos #maternitypictures #maternityphotos #njmaternityphotographer 📷: @joannastuba
this outfit formula has made getting dressed in th this outfit formula has made getting dressed in the third trimester so much easier, and I get compliments every time! 

Drawstring pants > oversized button down > sandals 

why does it work? it’s easy and comfy (nothing restrictive). plus leaving the button down open lets you show off you bump and not feel like a shapeless blob. 

I wore this outfit to my OBGYN appointment on friday and the nurse told me I looked “refreshing.” My fellow mamas can attest to how a compliment like that makes your day in the third trimester when you’re feeling bigger than ever! Bonus points, it’s something I’d totally wear post-pregnancy too. 

#maternityoutfits #thirdtrimester #pregnancystyle #pregnantfashion #maternityclothes
sun’s out, bump’s out ☀️ and my complete g sun’s out, bump’s out ☀️ and my complete guide to a maternity capsule wardrobe is on the blog! It’s taken me a while to get into a groove dressing the bump (doesn’t help when your body changes week to week), but I feel really good about where I’ve netted out with my pregnancy wardrobe. Just in time to meet baby! hoping this helps some of you who are navigating this stage of life. and don’t worry so much of it is actually NON MATERNITY! 

#maternitystyle #maternityfashion #pregnancystyle #pregnantfashion #capsulewardobe
!!! #34weeks #thirdtrimesterfeels #thirdtrimester !!!

#34weeks #thirdtrimesterfeels #thirdtrimester #maternitystyle
last weeks before baby 🤍🕊️ special thank last weeks before baby 🤍🕊️

special thank you to @joannastuba for capturing these beautiful moments! 

#maternityshootideas #maternityphotos #maternitysession #momtobe2025 #maternitypictures
33 weeks, and I think she finally figured it out 33 weeks, and I think she finally figured it out 

#pregnantmama #dogsandpregnancy #pregnantbump #pregnancyisbeautiful #momtobesoon
a non maternity piece that has quickly become my f a non maternity piece that has quickly become my favorite for summer maternity outfits? not only is the white maxi skirt majorly on trend, but it’s so comfy with the bump. this one I picked up has a super stretchy waist band and pockets. I will definitely be wearing it after baby arrives! until then I’m styling it with simple tanks and tees (although I really wanted to style it with my denim vest yesterday but it no longer fits 😭) 

comment SHOP and I’ll send you a DM with the link. even if you’re not pregnant, you’ll want this staple in your closet this summer

https://liketk.it/5dXny #maternityoutfit #pregnantfashion #summermaternityclothes #summeroutfitinspo #pregnancystyle
finally giving in to maternity clothes, but these finally giving in to maternity clothes, but these @ougesdress Amazon maternity dresses are so worth it! 

#ougespartner #amazonmaternity #maternitydresses #amazondresses #pregnancydress
a weekend well spent #jerseycitylife #nyccontent a weekend well spent 

#jerseycitylife #nyccontentcreator #maternitystyle #momtobe2025
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Lifestyle · May 9, 2019

What It Means to be a Perfectionist in the Workplace

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You know that interview question where they ask “What’s your weakness?” And you’re supposed to answer, “I’m a perfectionist”? Well that’s the truth for me. Perfectionism is both my strength and my weakness.

There can be many positives to being a perfectionist in the workplace. Namely, always turning in very high quality work. Other positive aspects are being on time, dependable, highly motivated, and working really really hard.

But if perfectionism isn’t managed properly, it can actually be detrimental. Perfectionists can have higher levels of stress due to the consistent need to perform perfectly. Burnout and anxiety are common among perfectionists, who often believe their self-worth is tied to how well they perform and they kind of work they do.

Sound like you? It sure sounds like me.

My first memory of my perfectionist tendencies was losing my mind as a young girl if my socks weren’t folded perfectly straight. As an adult, my perfectionism doesn’t manifest itself in such obvious ways.

After last week’s campaign shoot and event for Bloomeffects, I started to realize just how much of a perfectionist I am. I’m so proud of the high level I performed at and how well everything turned out. But what I’m not proud of are the breakdowns at midnight when I got home and was so stressed about one forgotten prop or missed detail. Something that no one else even noticed.

I love the high standards that I hold myself to. I’m always proud of the work that I do and the way that I do it. But last week opened my eyes to the darker side of perfectionism. Something I didn’t recognize until now.

I’m definitely not at a point where my perfectionism is detrimental to my work or my health. But I do realize how it can get to that point if you let it. I’m glad that I’ve come to recognize the dark side of perfectionism so I can take the necessary steps to reign it in.

I won’t stop turning in high quality work or functioning at a high level. But I will start to work on the anxiety that comes from small mistakes, the fear of failure, and the amount of self-worth I place on my achievements.

Have you ever experienced anxiety or stress from being a perfectionist in the workplace?

Xx, Kelsey

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honestly the third trimester body changes have not honestly the third trimester body changes have not been easy to deal with. I’m feeling bigger than ever, tired, and uncomfortable. but getting this maternity photos back was SO SPECIAL and made me so glad that I took the time to get dressed up and capture this life stage with my husband. 

so if you need a sign to go take the maternity photos, this is it! even if it’s just an hour, even if you’re just having your partner snap photos in the backyard. capture this special time. you won’t regret it. 

#maternityphotos #maternitypictures #maternityphotos #njmaternityphotographer 📷: @joannastuba
this outfit formula has made getting dressed in th this outfit formula has made getting dressed in the third trimester so much easier, and I get compliments every time! 

Drawstring pants > oversized button down > sandals 

why does it work? it’s easy and comfy (nothing restrictive). plus leaving the button down open lets you show off you bump and not feel like a shapeless blob. 

I wore this outfit to my OBGYN appointment on friday and the nurse told me I looked “refreshing.” My fellow mamas can attest to how a compliment like that makes your day in the third trimester when you’re feeling bigger than ever! Bonus points, it’s something I’d totally wear post-pregnancy too. 

#maternityoutfits #thirdtrimester #pregnancystyle #pregnantfashion #maternityclothes
sun’s out, bump’s out ☀️ and my complete g sun’s out, bump’s out ☀️ and my complete guide to a maternity capsule wardrobe is on the blog! It’s taken me a while to get into a groove dressing the bump (doesn’t help when your body changes week to week), but I feel really good about where I’ve netted out with my pregnancy wardrobe. Just in time to meet baby! hoping this helps some of you who are navigating this stage of life. and don’t worry so much of it is actually NON MATERNITY! 

#maternitystyle #maternityfashion #pregnancystyle #pregnantfashion #capsulewardobe
!!! #34weeks #thirdtrimesterfeels #thirdtrimester !!!

#34weeks #thirdtrimesterfeels #thirdtrimester #maternitystyle
last weeks before baby 🤍🕊️ special thank last weeks before baby 🤍🕊️

special thank you to @joannastuba for capturing these beautiful moments! 

#maternityshootideas #maternityphotos #maternitysession #momtobe2025 #maternitypictures
33 weeks, and I think she finally figured it out 33 weeks, and I think she finally figured it out 

#pregnantmama #dogsandpregnancy #pregnantbump #pregnancyisbeautiful #momtobesoon
a non maternity piece that has quickly become my f a non maternity piece that has quickly become my favorite for summer maternity outfits? not only is the white maxi skirt majorly on trend, but it’s so comfy with the bump. this one I picked up has a super stretchy waist band and pockets. I will definitely be wearing it after baby arrives! until then I’m styling it with simple tanks and tees (although I really wanted to style it with my denim vest yesterday but it no longer fits 😭) 

comment SHOP and I’ll send you a DM with the link. even if you’re not pregnant, you’ll want this staple in your closet this summer

https://liketk.it/5dXny #maternityoutfit #pregnantfashion #summermaternityclothes #summeroutfitinspo #pregnancystyle
finally giving in to maternity clothes, but these finally giving in to maternity clothes, but these @ougesdress Amazon maternity dresses are so worth it! 

#ougespartner #amazonmaternity #maternitydresses #amazondresses #pregnancydress
a weekend well spent #jerseycitylife #nyccontent a weekend well spent 

#jerseycitylife #nyccontentcreator #maternitystyle #momtobe2025
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